Recently, both of us, realize that so many occasion where Josh really asked us to fulfill what we have promise him.
Of course both of us have agreed in the beginning, "Never promise something that you won't do", "Exact When, and How".
Some of the event that I remember:
* We had a meeting with Legal, Somebody gave Josh a Candy.
Josh: Ma, buka candy nya. (Ma, open the candy)
Ma: Tunggu Josh, Tunggu Notarisnya datang, yang akan duduk dibangku merah tengah itu. (Wait Josh, till the Legal came, who will sit on middle red chair).
After few moment, a lady came (just standing near the red chair).
Josh: Ituuu notarisnya datang (that... legal came). Buka ma candynya. (Open the candy ma)
All of us laugh hearing Josh said it. I mean, he still exactly remember my promise.
But I told him the lady not sitting on the red chair, she just standing, so keep wait ok.
And yes, Josh could understand it.
*Josh took a chocolate from our luggage.
He want me to open it, but I said, after you finished a glass of orange juice, then I will open it for you.
I was busy with something else, and I didn't notice that he keep drink the juice little by little.
Till 20 minutes later, Josh came to me and said, "Ma, habis jus orange". He has finished it, and he asked me to open it. Of course I open it and he ate it happily.
*Whenever he played with ipad or watching tv and the time has come, we count it to ten.
First, he refuse it, but we insist on our word, even he have to cry and scream.
Today, after ten, he's the one who closed the tv or ipad and willingly follow us.
*Even I felt Josh didn't know the concept of day yet, when I promise him to swim, I try not to said "Tomorrow without any intention to do it", but I will say the exact time "Sunday, after Sunday School and lunch, we will go with your brother for swimming". Soon, Josh will learn about concept of time, and I guess he need assurance when I will fulfill my promise.
Just a little thing to share on this blog. "Do what you say"