Nowdays we talked a lot, about everything, a word become a sentence and become a story.
Yesterday we spent one day off just three of us.
During our shopping time, (as I barely brought something to my self if I go by my self), Josh who was impatient, run and hit daddy on his back.
Dad who usually could handle it, now felt hurt.
I told Josh, never do that again, don't hit someone at the back, you might hit daddy internal organ.
Why?
Yes, if the internal organ hurt, daddy could get sick, if it worse and couldn't be cured, daddy could pass away.
Josh: if daddy pass away means we couldn't have money?
(Cause we are in the middle of walking, I'm quite surprise of his answer. I honestly never point about daddy earn money for us. Yes I do told that daddy work, and can pay the school fees. May be he got the point from there. But I also point that we all have responsibility. Means he shall keep learning because he have been blessed with an opportunity for attend the school, or piano lesson etc.).
Me who still on walk: No Josh, it's not about money. But mom will missing daddy.
Josh: why?
Me: Mom will miss partner in life.
Josh: How about me mom, you still have me even daddy not there?
Me: You are my son, Daddy is my partner. It's bit different Josh.
Josh then quietly finish the talk while we on the walk. Because we were in hurry, I didn't continue it.
Now when I remember the talk, I think i need to take time again to doing a chit chat with Josh.
I felt I'm not properly explain it on the spot.
I know some of his answer was taking some part of our answer.
Let says I told him, like uncle when pass away, you can feel sad but you still have God, you still have mom or dad, etc.
So Josh easily answered me that I still have him when daddy was not here anymore.
For 5 years old kid, I felt their brain like comprises of all things, they can be mix and match, which somehow surprise me.
Need God grace everyday to wisely answered Josh.
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