Happy Chinese New Year. Gong xi Gong xi.
Honestly, I'm not really prepared for the chinese new year. All my mind was focus on decorating the mini garden in my mom house. Yes, I did finished it, and the next day I got cramping leg.
What different this year was Josh reaction to HongPao.
Just year ago, he will give to me, more he didn't care about angpao.
But this year, before the day, Josh told me that he want to buy a toy from his angpao. He also choose his own angpao.
Just year ago, he will give to me, more he didn't care about angpao.
But this year, before the day, Josh told me that he want to buy a toy from his angpao. He also choose his own angpao.
The time is come now, when I need to teach him a simple money management.
How much he can spend, how much he shall save.
I told him that you can spend 10percent or maximum 300thousand IDR.
How much he can spend, how much he shall save.
I told him that you can spend 10percent or maximum 300thousand IDR.
Yesterday, we went to Toys kingdom. We check out the Lego that he want. I compared with the internet and asked him to wait whether we can have it on cheaper price.
After Lego, he still have a money left, and can buy one more toys.
He keep starring at Meca Blade, there's a video showing how it's play. Very interesting and captivating, and he told us many times that he want this meca blade.
He keep starring at Meca Blade, there's a video showing how it's play. Very interesting and captivating, and he told us many times that he want this meca blade.
I refused it. Actually i feel bad, I supposed to let him decide. But this toys need a friend to play with. If you have no partner, then I believe he will only play it for 2 days and forget it.
Last time, a similar toy brought by Daddy for Josh, hoping that he will play with his cousin, but that never happen, the toys neglected.
So Daddy have a disccussion with Josh.
Daddy felt bad, and decided to buy 2 meca blade.
But when Dad want to buy it, suddenly I came with other robot toys - shooting using a marble, so Josh can play individually.
When Josh saw the one that I offer him, He change his mind.
I still wait whether he still want a meca blade or this shooting robot.
Josh just gladly choose the shooting robot.
Daddy felt bad, and decided to buy 2 meca blade.
But when Dad want to buy it, suddenly I came with other robot toys - shooting using a marble, so Josh can play individually.
When Josh saw the one that I offer him, He change his mind.
I still wait whether he still want a meca blade or this shooting robot.
Josh just gladly choose the shooting robot.
I didn't know what changing daddy, till he want to buy two meca blade. So on the way back home, daddy told me the story.
Josh told daddy " I really want this meca blade. I will buy one. I will keep it until next year. Then using next year angpao, I will buy another one for you daddy, so we can play together."
My heart ache, I told daddy, why don't you buy it, why you didn't tell me before.
Daddy said, let Josh learn that you not always got everything you want.
It's still hard and always hard when I think I can give it, but I need to hold my self and let the learning process take place.
Daddy said, let Josh learn that you not always got everything you want.
It's still hard and always hard when I think I can give it, but I need to hold my self and let the learning process take place.
Hope you will understand Josh.
We love you. *Hugs and Kisses*
We love you. *Hugs and Kisses*
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